"Somewhere Men are also helpless..."

"Men are the most powerful being in this world. Men are never be helpless, they use their power to protect others, even they do domestic violence too on women. You are wrong, Soumya, even Women are one who need helps, they need attention, etc, etc.." These are the words said by my Friend Arya, when I talked about Men, to him. Is he is right? Actually Men don't need any rights? They don't need attention, help? Actually when we talked about rights or secondary being, our attention mainly goes towards women and children. And no doubt our government has made so many laws for women, children to empowered them. As we all know that every coins have two sides. Government has provided so many rights to empowered them but there are so many women in our society who are not even aware about their rights and suffers a lot. But what happen when women knows too much about her rights and use it as a weapon in a negative way? Exactly, what you are thinking is right, then Men suffers😂

 

Its a serious topic but irony is that if someone start to discuss this topic then people will laugh and put this aside! We all know that, we celebrate women's day on 8th march but Is anyone know when we celebrate Men's day?  We celebrate International Men's day on 19th of November.  There are so many false cases which are made by women on men's family by using their rights as their weapon! And by doing so, there are so many women who really deserve that, have to suffer. In my views, the problem is that government made rights to empowered women but some women are using it as their weapon in a wrong way and other side lots of them are even aware about their rights. Things are not in a balanced form. One more thing I want to share in here is that Our Indian government, Courts are so strong, they can tell us what is right and wrong but before their decision, please take your decision on the basis of what majority are saying.  Somewhere Men are right, somewhere women are right. Women are not weak, they are strongest creature on this earth. We perform "durga puja" or do "Saraswati vandana" etc. because women always give their love, blessings,  charm to everyone. Its true Men are physically strong but there is no doubt when men felt depressed or low, woman is always with him☺️. So, God, a best creature have give everyone some strength to help others and weakness, so that other help them!!!

 

Kindly, give their love to all the Men in your life because they also deserve that.

 

Yes, its true they can't express much, just try to understand them, love them, respect them, care them!! ☺️☺️

नारी छोटी, नर बड़ा???

नारी छोटी नर बड़ा,

नारी छोटी नर बड़ा!

बड़ा ग़लत यह भेद!

दोनो एक सामान हैं

कहते शुत्र और वेद

कहते शुत्र और वेद,

हैं बराबर के यह दोनो पहिये

अगर हो छोटे - बड़े,

चले क्यूँ गाड़ी कहिए??

जो करते यह भेद,

हुई उनकी मत खोटी!

जन्मा जिससे नर,

वोह नारी कैसे छोटी ??

नारी निन्दा ना करो,

नारी नर की ख़ान!

नारी से नर होत्त हैं,

ध्रुव, प्रहलाद सामान!

हैं नारी, तेरे उपहारों से बोझिल,

सत्कार तेरा हम करते हैं!

हैं प्रथम शिक्षक, प्रथम गुरू,

तुझे नमन हम करते हैं,

तुझे नमन हम करते हैं!!

This poem, written by my Dad. This poem is dedicated to all the wonderful women in this wold, weather she is a teacher, Mother, or any one else! God gifted us a wonderful creature which is a WOMEN! Share this poem to your love ones and thanks them to be a special part in your life!!🙂🙂

Depression : A Slow Poison!

Sushant Singh suicide gave us a huge impact in our mind how an actor suicide?.

 He have everything which is a dream of any youngster..

 Name, Fame, everything..  He was a foolish.!! Its a normal thinking of people.

 People deals with happiness with materialistic things . If they have, they will be happy.. Everyone knows about physical health because we can see it easily. but what about mental health??  No one is talking about that.  And if someone talk about that.. his or her mind is not working properly or if he feels some sort of stress,  people usually say "pagal hai" Somewhere it is also a major cause people afraid to talk about it. 

Sushant, a well polished actor suicide,  Media, Tv news everyone came in support of him.. And his friends were saying "kash Sushant ne share kia hota apni problem" but if he shared, he knows the effect after that. 

Kota students  suicide every year just because a pressure in their mind, they fight within ourself and when they lose they finished them self! Biggest question in our elders mind why youngters finished themselves in small small things? 

They don't know how to fight.! Yes, somewhere we don't know how to fight with our problems, we get stress in a small things yes! We get suicide thoughts when ever we feel low and we never deny it.. Because we all are not fighting with any human or any things, We are fighting within ourself. 

 But if you(elders) are much more mature, much more experience, why don't teach us to fight with obstacles? You don't get enough time to sit with us talk with love? After Sushant's death I have saw many status based on " if friends have problems I will be there" but my question is why always our eyes get open when we lost so precious gem from this world.? 

And after few days everything gets normal... We all are willing to help others.. But when time came for help we back out! You know, we don't have to go anywhere just see beside our friends our family members this critical time we all are facing sort of mental health weather its small or large. But we can't deny it we are facing it! Just try to talk others with love, don't wait for people to come in front you to discuss their problem, may be your little love full kind  words brings shower in their life! People are gems in your life, respect them love them.. because KARMA works! What we give, we get back! I am lucky to have such a beautiful family and friends in my life. they are precious gems....in my life! Just find gems in your life, they were not far from you, they are beside you. but most important just SPEAK OUT!!!!! And love yourself first.! 

        ज़िन्दगी के बहुत रंग देखे...

       कभी ख़ुशी कभी गम देखे!... 

DREAM...!!

Dream..!!!! A dream which everyone see in our childhood. Some one want to become Doctor someone want to become Engineer and so one... List is endless.. And its impossible to  describe all the dreams of everyone. Some dreams saw by our parents, teachers..and lots of people in our life who loves us they want to fulfil their own dreams through us..their intentions are pure but when it become a pressure for a child.. No one knows..like everyone I also saw some dreams in childhood and want to fulfill that.. I want to become a doctor not because to help people but because If someone scolds me I will gave them an injections.. Its quiet funny! My other dream was to become a librarian...😂  just because I am fond of books...and in my childhood I thought librarian is so lucky. 

He can read any book without purchasing it.😂 . One more dream is to become big as soon as possible so that I will be free...no boundation nothing.. I will have my money..  I will go where ever I want..etc.. I will be so happy .

Now, I have my money, I can go every where I want... but the Irony is that...now I am not happy as in my childhood... Now I want to stay in home.. Spend time with my family,  love to spend time with friends.. Small candies gave happiness.. in childhood... In chasing dreams and want to get more as compared to a person beside us. Its we call a success and happiness!  But when we got that we want more.. n more and this cycle never ends.. Now I only want to live my childhood again.. 

Having family.."Ma ke hath ka khna" "Papa ka hug".. Now childhood is a dream every one wants to live again. But unfortunately time never travel back.

.Atlast I only want to say..live your life with fullest...this lockdown give us opportunity to spend our time with family..do as much as you can... 

     Kyuki.." Bachpan me Ghar se bahar niklne ki chah me....

 Ab ghr aane ko jee chahta h..!